People pleasers are a specific type of person driven by a desire to please everyone, keep the peace, and put other's needs before their own... or at least that's what they'll tell you! In My time as a Domme, I've encountered a large number of "submissives" who were not actually behaving in a submissive manner at all and were instead just people pleasing. There is a distinction between the two and it's rather important.

It's impossible to find a Domme who wants a relationship, right?

Every Domme is intimately familiar with this phenomenon. A new submissive approaches, expresses interest in an extremely intense level of...

Over the years I've received countless emails asking Me how to get started in the Professional BDSM industry. Most of the requests for...

When I see clients who are brand new to BDSM, I always have a quick talk with them before they leave the dungeon about what to expect...

In recent years people have been examining their kink practices through a socially aware lens, which is definitely a good thing....

My scent is one of My most powerful tools. Clients and strangers alike find themselves drawn to Me, eager to get as close as possible....

Over the years I've met many people with a desire to engage in golden showers or urinal play who refrain due to health concerns. There...

A very good friend of Mine and an amazing Domme - ChurchMouth - said something to Me several years ago in regards to not just BDSM but...

What is a service sub? There seems to be some confusion about this, especially among those seeking the position. A service sub is a...

As a Professional Dominatrix and lifestyle Domme, acquiring new skills and keeping up to date on best practices is critical. I’ve found...