People pleasers are a specific type of person driven by a desire to please everyone, keep the peace, and put other's needs before their own... or at least that's what they'll tell you! In My time as a Domme, I've encountered a large number of "submissives" who were not actually behaving in a submissive manner at all and were instead just people pleasing. There is a distinction between the two and it's rather important.

Uncover the psychology behind last-minute cancellations when booking a Dominatrix. Explore the fear, anxiety, and societal stigma that may h

Every Domme is intimately familiar with this phenomenon. A new submissive approaches, expresses interest in an extremely intense level of...

When I see clients who are brand new to BDSM, I always have a quick talk with them before they leave the dungeon about what to expect...

Over My years as a Dominatrix there has been a common factor in the dissolution of every D/s dynamic I've had with My regulars. My peers...

Over the years I've heard this many times: "I have too much empathy to be a Domme- I can't imagine hurting someone!" There's a...

In recent years people have been examining their kink practices through a socially aware lens, which is definitely a good thing....

It's probably fair to say that most people don't have a long-term goal when they see a Dominatrix. They're curious, or trying to meet a...

My scent is one of My most powerful tools. Clients and strangers alike find themselves drawn to Me, eager to get as close as possible....